first they acknowledge that they are different from normal people because they have some medical conditions.
then they asked for a chance to lead a normal life, i.e. attend school like any other 18 yr old
so when u are enrolled in a mainstream school, there's a curriculum to follow & pace of lesson to upkeep.
how then can u accuse anyone due to your own inferior complex of scolding u/ picking on u all the time when the message is meant for the entire group?
so for your special condition, do we treat the rest like individuals with special needs as well?
after all the drama ma-ma
you left
without even bidding goodbye
the worst of all, comes the threat of official complaints.
come what may be
i won't be threatened
or be intimidated
simply because i've done my job
and nothing against my own conscience
above all, i live for the audience of one
IF HE IS FOR ME, WHO ELSE CAN BE AGAINST ME?
so, i'm waiting for u. loser.
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esther made this for me. so nice right... muack! thanks. =)
my kind of colours: pink, red and yellow.
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we are all highly stressed up people, so we decided to leave everything behind and scream our lungs out one day. left school immediately after practical on tues to partyworld.***
that's the two married women who decided to turn lesbian that day... goes to show their stress level...
that's me n fong cheng. was told that i managed to make a really ugly face. HAHAHA.
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Anger management
an interesting topic which we discussed in cell on wed
What really is anger?
a basic emotional response to stress which activates, motivates and invigorates oneself to defend against perceived threats.
Expression of anger
1. suppression, ie consciously pretending to look cool when u really ain't.
2. repression, ie anger is being turned inwards without yourslf realising and u become angrier
3. expression - like throwing, screaming, beating people etc..
4. confession- anger is acknowledged and talked about
Processing anger
Unhealthy ways include: denial, blaming others, ignoring others, shouting, searing, screaming and threats.
Better ways would be:
-Ccooling off time
- Learning to say "I'm angry". revealing our feelings promote communications
- Forgivenss. To forgive is to accept that a wrong has been done which made one angry and a decision is made to forgive n not to let it bother our peace anymore.
- Change of perspective. learning to separate the incident form the person. Treat each incident separately and not accumulate or bring past incidences into account.
In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Ephesians 4:26-27
it's an insightful and valuable lesson for me.
thank God.
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it's time to drink from the well of living water again
to dwell in His ever awesomeness
only His unconditional love will satisfy
nothing else will do
1 comment:
You have done nothing wrong. Have faith & everytink will done out fine. we all have our fair share of prob also. GEH also kanna last yr. those wiz association wiz the IMP gotta write comments abt the IMP. me including. no worries. its part of our 'enriching lives' journey...
the most we go release steam la...
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